All mothers know that new baby smell. When you kiss your baby, you don’t just do it with your lips but with your nose too. Any opportunity to smell them gives us calm and wanting more as though it’s a drug. I may be an extreme case but I’m in love with smells that I shouldn’t really be loving like his sweat, his milky breath, even his full nappy. Ok, I’ll stop right there. I bet you’re thinking, “crazy woman”. Continue reading
Watch this video when a teacher engages in a physical fight with her student:
How does it get to the point where a child feels they are invisible? How long must this teacher have been suffering for her to react like this? It might not just have been this day, it Continue reading
For days now I’ve had a task that I’ve been putting off. After doing the washing, drying it and then emptying the dryer, I’ve ended up with a pile of clean laundry in the bedroom that just won’t shift.
Now I know I’m not on my own because I’ve just searched for the words ‘laundry pile’ on Google and there were a ton of images that could go on for years. I’ve also seen friends and family with the same problem. Continue reading
My partner and I love learning new things together and apart from outings, we also like to bring out the books every now and then.
It feels like such an intimate thing every time we do it. I’m not talking about fictional books. I’m not one for fiction as I mentioned before on my book list page. You can take a look at what I like to read over there.
Talk about growing together
He reads aloud to me and when he gets tired, I read to him. We take little pauses to reflect on what we’ve read and let our imaginations and creative juices flow. It feels so special because it’s something we do alone, we learn things as a couple to better ourselves and our lives through knowledge.
All couples should do this, give it a go.
What is the 5am club I hear you ask? I came across a man called Robin Sharma as I was video surfing ‘motivational videos’ one day. I did some research on him and found out he is a writer, motivational speaker and leadership expert. Thought: what makes someone a leadership ‘expert’?
Anyway in this particular video of his, he talked about how to get up early. Early as in 5am early. Why should you do that? According to a ‘poll of 20 executives cited by Vanderkam, 90% said they wake before 6am in weekdays’, (Businessinsider.com). We don’t need a poll to tell us this anyway. So Robin Sharma says the average time at which these people get up is 5am. However some are known to get up way earlier, like the Fiat and Chrysler CEO Sergio Marchionne who gets up 3.30am.
It makes sense for one to get up earlier than everyone else in their time zone. Think of all the things that could get done. It’s no surprise most of these executives use this time to work out before breakfast, check their e-mails and respond to them and take care of their mind. And I don’t even have to mention how I can get this post typed up on a Good Friday morning when everyone else is asleep, that gives me more family time later on.
Joining the 5am club will take dedication, it’s not a breeze and Sharma states that you have to develop the habit which in his theory takes 66 days. In the video, he has tips on how to develop the habit and motivate yourself so as to not fall off track. My Monday to Saturday schedule is always the same, I get up somewhere round 5.45 and 6.30 so it’s not quite 5am but still earlier than most. It doesn’t have to be 5am, as long as you know you have an edge on the rest of the world, you have an advantage, whether it’s two, three or four hours is up to you. I tried to push it to 5am and it lasted two or three days but that was the end of it. To be honest I wasn’t as committed on that as I am on this blog. There has to be a reason for why you want to wake up early, otherwise the hunger will be non-existent.
Now what I would like to improve on is how I spend this time. I think knowing exactly what should happen is key. There’s no point getting up early and not doing anything constructive with that time, you might as well go back to bed. I am guilty of this. I don’t have a set plan, I do things slowly and sometimes it would come to 9am, and after three hours of being awake, I’d ask myself what I have achieved and I have nothing to answer for. Well today I woke up at 6.10, procrastinated a little and finished this post by 8:15. That sucks! Normally I pay a visit to the kitchen first thing to check that the sink is empty, if it isn’t I’ll wash up the few things straight away and give the kitchen a wipe down; just puts the mind at ease. I didn’t need to this morning as I knew it was empty.
Well if you will be trying it out let me know how it goes or if you already are an early bird, how early do you get up and do you get much done at all?
My youngest has developed a cold and at seven months old, they really find it hard to cope with. Sleep time is agony, it’s hard enough for us as adults so you can imagine for a baby who can’t even blow his own nose. Bless him. Apart from a few solutions out there on the market including pipettes which are an ingenious solution, I must say, there is something you probably have ready at hand if you don’t have a pipette.
When it comes to wiping baby’s nose, tissue can be quite harsh on the skin. A handkerchief would be better but I’ve found something that feels even smoother.
Get a few of your baby wipes, give them a rinse to remove any of the manufacturer’s additives and use them wet or dry. The Johnson’s baby wipes we use are so soft especially when dry, they glide over the skin and you will feel a difference when helping your baby get cleaned up. They can also be reused, just give them a hand wash, but to be honest, they are so cheap I don’t give myself the extra bother.
Judgment is an opinion in someone else's brain. A mere figment of their imagination. Are you really going to let this control your life?
“I like this stuff. Mummy loves this stuff, she has a whole separate bowl full of it after she’s fed me. Don’t tell her I told you that. Daddy knows too but he pretends he doesn’t see her. Oh, she’s coming! Off to get cleaned up now. Chereo!” Continue reading
After yesterday’s very personal post on the issues we face on networking as introverts, I thought I’d show you a video that has become so popular from TED on the topic. It’s a bit less about networking and more about the nature of introverts and how we fit into the world.